Opinions please...
An Ex is not something you want to have around, especially if it ended badly. Really badly, definitely not. You don't want them knowing about what is going on in your world at all. You want them out of it, right?
Well I do.
So what do you do when you realize that people who are close to you (friends or family) who were NEVER close to them, are suddenly in contact with the Ex? I don't want this person to know anything about me or where I am in life and the idea that he does makes me annoyed and angry. We did not end well. How do you tell someone that you don't want them to be "friends" (ok, on facebook people, not REAL friends) with this person. Is that too much to ask? Is it too much to want that part of your life done and over with without pieces coming back through this?
I don't think it is. Do you? I am open to thoughts on either side of this.
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I think, that it's totally not appropriate. And you should tell this person how you feel about your EX knowing about you. Don't tell them they can't be friends, but explain your feelings and frustrations. They may ask if you don't want them to be friends, if so politely say something like I'd prefer it if you weren't. and leave it at that. Hope this helps. Love ya!!
I know it is frustrating, but can you blame the poor schmuck for continuing to sniff around; you are fantastic, you should take it as a compliment. Plus him trying to spy on you should just incourage you to twinkle brighter to show off what he is no longer allowed to touch.
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