Boy Log

Guys in my life and relationship status:

Logan: Logan I have known for almost 2 years, he has dated a couple of my friends and is enjoying (not dating currently) my dear friend Tricia. I am Logan’s personal chef cooking three meals a day for him, seamstress (hemming pants, sewing buttons, etc.), social coordinator (a normal text from Logan is along the lines of “hey, we should get some people together and go bowling. Let me know when.” Translated that means, “I want to go bowling, call some people and let me know what time you told them to be there.” It doesn’t normally fly, but he keeps trying), interior decorator (picked out all kinds of home décor for him) and I serve as best friend.
I love Logan for how good he is to me and how patient he is with me. He has a personality that makes me laugh and knows what and how to say things sometimes that just take the crazy out of me. I love him for that. I do not love him though. While I think he is super cute and a great catch, he is not for me.

Want to kiss him: No
Have kissed him: No


Jason: Jason is a new edition to my guy friends but he is only a friend. There a few deal breakers involved with Jason for me. He is a good listener and a good shoulder to cry on. We laugh and have fun together, but there is no spark.

Want to kiss him: No
Have kissed him: No

Those are the big two guys in my life. Others drift in and out but those are my big guy friends at the moment. I tend to get them as friends, make them feel good about themselves and encourage them to date and get married. They do and I find new guys.

100 (or less) lies I tell guys:

yeah, I am sure she would go out with you.

I am ok with not dating, I am happy to see you dating though! (ALWAYS a lie)

Yeah, all my friends are married or dating. (sometimes guys just aren't good enough for my friends!)

I date all the time!

I have been in a few relationships before...(um, yeah, a lie.)

No, your not a bad kisser... (if you have to comment on it, it is NEVER a good sign!)

I have over the years just developed the desire to tell it like it is. I am not one to sit on stuff. Maybe not one of my endearing qualities to guys, but I just don't see the point in lying about stuff sometimes. So, these are the ones that I guess I tell guys. Otherwise, I just tell them the truth.

The last kiss was about a year ago and the last make out was about 2 ½ years ago. Last good make-out, 3 years ago. I am in a definite dry spell Ladies. Not for lack of looking. So, if you need something to keep in your prayers, it is me and lack of make-out! Haha! Or if you happen to know any great guys in their late 20’s to early 30’s, single and in need of my brand of specialness, send him my way. While the make-out is a good thing, I would settle for a good cuddle on the couch watching a movie.

There is one almost-sort-of prospect, a guy in my friends singles ward she wants me to meet. I know very little about him, he can carry a tune, has a degree and is working on another and is 29. I don't even know a name. But if anything comes of that, I will be sure to keep you updated. I am trying to stay positive, but there just aren't any guys around at the moment. Or for the last few years. There are worse things than being guyless, I am sure that there are.